Death, Life and Living: Remembering a friend

With everything that is happening around us, it is so hard to ignore DEATH. In the past month it is no longer about deaths of older people but even the young. Oh Death! This your sting is getting close to home. A few weeks ago, my husband got a call that he lost a dear friend and client. I was shocked beyond words and some how locked in away as if to live in denial of the news. Yesterday, we went for the service held on his behalf and I was in awe of the things that were said about …

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Learning to walk again || The Counter Culture

  There is no way I can tell my story with revealing how extreme I can be sometimes – rather, most times. I’ve noticed this pattern in my life and here’s how it plays out; I am hit with a truth or curious about something, once I get convinced about it, I start a journey to the extreme to either learn or unlearn as the case may be. Here are a few examples of how it’s played out in my life. When I was in the university, It was the beginning of my second year in the university, a seemingly …

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6 tips to form and keep a Habit

Habit is a routine of behaviour that is repeated regularly and tens to occur subconsciously (Source) Research shows that it takes about 21-30 days to form a new habit. Our success or failure is determined by the habits that we have cultivated in our lives. The aim of this article is to help us look through our goals and whatever we want to achieve this year and form habits that will bring us closer to making the goal(s) a reality. Here are 6 tips to help you form and keep a habit; Create a conducive environment: When you are ready …

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Are you over analysing and missing out?

“I’m tired of being inside my head. I want to live out here, with you.”  – Colleen McCarty, Mounting the Whale You know how Facebook sends you 4 years back “On this day”? It’s always been bitter-sweet for me to see some of those updates because they mostly contain links, links to my old blog. Sometimes I cringe reading some of the old posts and other times I just have a very sweet smile on my face. Looking back at those times and how easy it was for me to just click the “publish” button makes me miss those times. I …

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Happy New October || Blog Challenge

Hello my people! We are officially in the 10th month of the year 2016. Happy New October!!!! It sometimes feels like the year is breezing by but other times everything seems so slow… We can’t complain though, we can only be grateful to God for his sustaining grace and mercy towards us. I am kinda excited about this month because I want to challenge myself. The last time i tried doing a challenge on facebook, I failed! I know my biggest problem is consistency and I didn’t want to call this an “official Challenge” so as not to set myself …

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Is this really Love?

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Happy Monday People, How are you all doing? Hope your weekend went well? I am still trying to get back into the blogging groove and keeping up with alot of other blogger! *Phew* Today, we would be looking at Love and redefining it! Let’s dive! Over the years, I have learnt about love in different ways. I have heard Love being defined as God himself, Love being associated with giving and the other 1 Corinthians 13 4-13 definition of Love. There is only one thing that baffles me, the narrative before the popular parts of 1 Cor 13

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#ThankfulThursday: Delivered from an Accident

Hello Everyone, Welcome to #ThankfulThursday. I decided to do this abit differently today to share my friend’s Story. We have been childhood friends and i remember us talking alot right before he went for service and when this happened, you can imagine the horror!! I am forever grateful for him and I sat with him so we can tell the story! Viewer discretion is advised for the pictures and trust me it is nothing compared to the ones he sent me, I just couldn’t post them. Sorry in advance but away from that, it is a reminder for us to …

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Happy New August ||Goals

Hello People!!! HAPPY NEW MONTH!!! Thank you so much for the love in my latest post, I really appreciate it. There was a glitch in the mobile comment section which has been fixed now. In this post, I requested for advice on how to manage my new ‘working from home’ arrangement and my boss told me to make to-do lists and I am very big on to-do list and that is probably the only routined habit I have been able to sustain and since we got married- after struggling for a few weeks – I have made it a point …

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