What I did when I knew my marriage was over


“I Do” “In Sickness and in health” “For better for worse” “For richer for poorer” “As long as you both shall live” “I do”   These were the vows I made before God and man. They felt like just mere words at the altar because my feet hurt from the heels and I really just wanted to get it over with as I am not a big fan of getting all the attention.

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January 2017 Recap and February goals

Counter culture Jan recap

  Happy New Month people! Welcome to the month of Love. Is it really just me or did January go by so fast? I know it felt long because there were 5 Mondays and Tuesdays in the month but all the same, it went by so fast. Phew. I am just glad we are making progress already. Here’s How my January went; Personal Goals: I didn’t have any written personal goals this year mainly because I didn’t think that I was gonna follow through with them if I made too much ‘fuss’ about the new year. One thing I knew …

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One thing to do to spoil your wife

Happy wife, Happy life – Unknown We naturally put our best foot forward before we get married and after you get married, things begin to sizzle out because we are not putting in as much effort as we did in the beginning. It is equally as important after you get married to keep the fire burning. It it the duty of both parties to ensure that they do the work it entails. First let’s talk about our attitude as a couple towards spoiling each other; Do not spoil the other person with the expectation of reciprocity. Do what you have …

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How to transform his bachelor pad to a home

Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do… but how much love we put in that action. – Mother Teresa I have never really considered myself a homemaker. Being domestic is one of my least favourite things to do, but when I do set my mind to doing domestic chores, I put in my best. So, definitely I am not qualified to be giving profession home designing advise but this is what worked for me as a new wife thrown into the domestic deep end by her husband. You see, my husband placed so much expectation …

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Don’t go yet, Please! – Life Update

  Hello People! Happy Monday!!!! Are we in the last week in August already? The way the month was crawling fa, who woulda thunk it? I have been MIA, I know I scheduled some posts but I wasn’t feeling any connection to the blog in those times, but I am glad that we can schedule posts in advance even when we don’t feel like writing anything or when Life happens. So, Please, don’t go yet. I am still here 🙂 On my old blog, I was much more generous with my life and when I met my husband, he educated …

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Welcome back to my blog!

Welcome back

Hello Everyone. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HAPPY NEW MONTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s been a while. I’ve had issues with my last blog host which just made me abandon my blog and focus on my Youtube Channel. I am really sorry for those that tried to comment and had issues doing so and Thank you to everyone that reached out to me. I am really grateful. Ever since I got married, I have been more cautious about sharing my life online mostly because MrO is a very private person and I try to respect the fact that he can’t seem to wrap his head around documenting your …

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5 Lessons I’ve learnt in 5 Months of Marriage

Today is Christmas day!!! I did my own Christmas post yesterday 🙂 because today is our 5th Months Anniversary and I wanted to share this with you! I am sure every newly wed must have heard this annoying question the most in the shortest amount of time “How is married life” As much as I know that they may mean well and some people just really want to know to prepare themselves for the time, the question can get so annoying mostly because it’s all you have heard since you got married, I mean no one cares about “How are …

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#BecomingMrsO: Finalised

I always had an idea in my head about how lovey dovey my next relationship would be like but he came and smacked it down~ My Vows 25/7/15 “The Age difference is not a big deal” I heard time and time again from different people at different times when I was about to make my decision to go ahead with the relationship and asides from the confidence that I had in God to see me through it ALL, I honestly had no clue what to expect but so far we had be relating well and the Age wasn’t a barrier …

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#BecomingMrsO: Birth day Blues

Hi Everyone, Thank you soooo much for the warm reception in my last post, Honestly I didn’t expect it to be received like that which is why I am up at 2:47 am today making sure I finish this and push it out. I am now understanding multitasking on a whole different level now. Thanks again for ‘waiting’ this long. Enjoy! 😀 Don’t forget to subscribe 🙂 *************************************************************************************************************************** My wedding was a day before my birthday, I turned 25 and my twin brother in this very heart warming Birthday message reminded me of exactly where I was at the time …

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